Friday, February 28, 2014

Week 27



Major events:  Rice baseball games
Size of baby:  Head of cauliflower 
Sleep:  Each day is different... but I did have one night where I slept for 6 hours straight!  SIX.  I woke up feeling like a normal human!
Cravings:  Ice cream (specifically - chocolate peanut butter milk shakes!)
Movement:  Tons!  Getting freakier by the minute... and I got my first rib kick - talk about uncomfortable!  
Belly button in or out?  In
Missing:  Nothing specific... still missing my old clothes though!  
Best part of this week:  Feeling SO great this week!  Having dinner with my mom and Jay.  Also... booked our babymoon in NYC!!!
Hardest part of this week:  Nothing
Looking forward to:  Hopefully beginning a pre-natal yoga class on Monday!
Emotions:  Sad to say goodbye to the second trimester...

Wednesday, February 26, 2014

Running Through the First 20-something Weeks...

So I think it's time that I post a little something about my experience so far with running while pregnant.  (I had intentions of posting this many many weeks ago, but time seems to have somehow escaped me again.  Bah!)  (Also, please note that there is a disclaimer at the bottom of this post!)

Officially, while pregnant, I have trained for and run a half marathon and a 10K and plan on running one more 10K in about 10 days from now (I will be in my 3rd trimester/7th month/29 weeks at that point).  I found out I was pregnant on day 3 of my (10 week) half marathon training program.  While I had previously done some "research" on running during pregnancy (aka reading a bunch of crap online which usually only confuses you), I didn't want to go too crazy with the running until I had my first doctors appointment at 8 weeks.  I somewhat "put off" training for a bit, but continued to run about once a week, 3-4 miles per run.  Although, I was definitely paying more attention to my body, I felt great.  (Even normal running pains that I have felt a billion times before now became a focus and reason for concern: "Small cramp - do I need to stop and walk??")  At my 8 week appointment, I spoke with my doctor who gave me the green light.  Everyone is different, and everyone's doctor is different, but in this case, my doctor basically told me that (aside from the obvious - drugs, alcohol, bungee jumping, etc. Also - DUH) there is "little" that I could do to hurt my baby.  As long as I could breathe and walk, there was no need to stop during runs.  Unless a medical reason arises, there is no need to stop running during my pregnancy.  So my training resumed at that point.  While nothing FELT different, my runs definitely shifted from focusing on speed and pace and time to simply completing the run and feeling comfortable while doing so.  "Pushing myself" was not a concern.  I ran a half marathon at 13 weeks, and while it was my slowest race ever, I felt great.  I thought it would be a lot harder on my body to run slower (aka running for a longer period of time) however, I was very surprised that I was actually less sore in the hours/days following the race than usual.  A week and a half later I ran a 10K, also quite "slowly".

Since then, I have continued to average about 1-2 runs per week (although, ideally I would have preferred more like, 2-3 per week.  Oh well.)  Mechanically, nothing feels different.  As far as structure and bones and movement goes, running still feels the same (so far).  I don't feel off balance or extra bouncy (well, except for wishing I could wear about 10 sports bras!)  The first several weeks (months?) my boobs hurt SO bad, so that was the only uncomfortable part about running... and usually after the first mile or two I got used to it.  Luckily that went away pretty early (although, I am expecting that to return - and with vengeance! We'll see...)

I started to notice a few slight changes around 21 weeks - just small things, nothing crazy.  By 21 weeks or so, I had gained around 20 pounds give or take, and I think my legs finally started to notice... something was different!  I noticed my quads would start to get very fatigued/sore after about a half a mile or so... followed by my calves.  (Imagine if you just decided today to wear a 20 lb. backpack during your normal exercise routine! Ouch!)  However, after 2 miles or so, the lactic acid would kick in and the pain/fatigue during the run would fade away.  These first couple of miles continue to be the hardest for me.  I usually feel much better if I run 4 or 5 miles, as opposed to stopping after 2-3.

I also am WAY more sore after runs now than before.  I assume that the combination of extra weight/slower pace/distribution of weight is what causes this.  If I run 4-5 miles in the afternoon, by the time the evening rolls around, my body feels like I ran a half marathon that morning (achy legs, lower back pain, stiffness and fatigue).  I feel like (and probably look like) and 80 year old trying to get up of the couch!

The last thing that I have noticed (although, I don't remember exactly when it started) is the pressure.  Obviously, this continues to increase as well... if I pee 10 seconds before I leave for a run, the INSTANT I start running I feel like I have to go.  However, it's more than just feeling the need to pee... it's so much pressure downwards and it's quite uncomfortable.  I am guessing that this specifically is what will eventually keep me from running towards the end of my pregnancy. (SIDE NOTE:  Bittersweet side effect of running with this extra weight - I can definitely feel my quads and glutes getting bigger and stronger!  While, I am all for more muscle TONE, I don't want the size to increase - which it is!  AAHH!  Now the few non-maternity things that had still fit over my belly are not fitting over my thighs and butt.  Damn!  Hopefully I will lose a little muscle tone in my legs during the first several weeks after baby comes and I'm not able to run.)

All of these changes are small enough to allow me to continue running, and I do hope that I have a while longer before they actually stop me from running altogether.  When that time comes, I will continue to be active by just doing different workout DVDs at home.

Also, several weeks ago I purchased the Gabrialla Maternity Support Belt (available here) and I LOVE it!    I have been wearing this on all of my runs, hopefully to prevent too much bouncing.  (Everything is still so tight, I don't feel like I am at the point where my belly bounces up and down, however I haven't NOT worn it in quite a while.)  Here's what it looks like!



***Update:  I jogged for about 2 minutes yesterday without the support belt for the first time in a long time.  It definitely felt different not having the belt on and although, I don't feel like my belly was SUPER bouncy, I did feel like there was more movement than when I wear the belt.  So I am definitely glad that I have this and I think this product alone has helped me continue to run.

Sometimes, I feel like if I wear it SUPER tight it increases the pressure on my bladder... so I usually make sure it's snug, but not cutting-off-my-circulation tight.  I DO wish there was something to help with support/keeping things up on the inside... ;)  Also, if you purchase this belt for yourself, go a size up.  I have a small that barely fits.  A lot of the reviews on Amazon mention this, but I stupidly didn't read them until after I had purchased it.

I am SO truly grateful that God has allowed me to continue running up to this point of my pregnancy.  I know that He has provided me with the strength and endurance that I have needed to accomplish these things.  I hope to post again towards the end of the pregnancy about my experience running through the third trimester.  I hope to run through at least the 8th month... but that all depends ;).



Read about my continued experience with running throughout my pregnancy here: 3rd and 4th Trimester Running...and Beyond! (Part 1)



Disclaimer:  On the off chance that some crazy person takes my advice too seriously and does something to harm them self or their baby, I should also probably say something to this effect:  The thoughts and opinion shared on this blog are simply what works for me and you should not do any exercise regimens during pregnancy without first consulting your doctor.  Everyone and every body is different.  Listen to your body, listen to your doctor and definitely don't start anything NEW while pregnant.  What works for me may not be healthy for you.

Saturday, February 22, 2014

Week 26

When I look at pictures of myself I feel like I am looking at other peoples bodies.  It doesn't feel like it's this big!  (Despite the fact that moving around is getting more difficult.)

Major events:  Valentine's Day :)
Size of baby:  Length of a green onion (no veggie this week again.  Last time I promise!)
Sleep:  Bad!  This past week, I got to the point where I am unable to roll over in my sleep.  I have to wake up and make a conscious effort to switch sides.  It takes so much energy just to roll over! (One night, I went about 4 hours without rolling over and woke up with extreme leg, hip and IT band pain.)
Cravings:  Ice cream/milkshakes.  And alcohol.  It hasn't really been an issue up until now.  I blame the warmer weather... but there have been so many days where a cold beer or nice cool glass of pinot grigio sounds SO good.  
Movement:  So much!!  Some of her punches have started getting uncomfortable... mostly when she bangs up against my obliques... the skin and muscles there are so thin it takes my breath away!
Belly button in or out?  In!
Missing:  Beer and wine.  Sleep.  Being able to comfortably put shoes on.    
Best part of this week:  Spending an awesome Valentine's day weekend with my husband :) completing the painting in the nursery and worshiping at Ecclesia with Crowder!
Hardest part of this week:  Dealing with feelings of loneliness.  As amazing as it is and as absolutely grateful as I am to be able to stay at home a rest during this time, I am a very social person and some days I truly miss interacting with other humans (right now it's just the dog!)  However, I know that these feelings are only temporary, and I hope that once the baby is here we will be able to make new mommy friends in our area!
Looking forward to:  Deciding on a location for our Babymoon :)  Right now the top contenders are:  Santa Fe, Portland, New York City and Las Vegas (yes I realize Vegas sounds crazy, but staying at an off-strip resort/spa would be pretty damn relaxing! [and warm!])
Emotions:  Up and down - hormones going crazy.  Some days I feel really sad for no reason, some days I am really happy.  

Week 25



Major events:  Dr. appt.  (One more left before we switch to going every 2 weeks!)
Size of baby:  Rutabaga (I'm not sure what rutabaga the people at baby center were looking at, but I couldn't find one that seemed big enough.  So I went with a very large grapefruit... although, I think she's a little bigger than that right now!)
Sleep:  Terrible.  I miss sleeping so much!!
Cravings:  Cheeseburgers
Movement:  Yes!  Lots.  She is now strong enough to push back when I press on my stomach.  (She used to not really fight back when I would press on my belly... now shes kicks my hand back... hard!)  
Belly button in or out?  In
Missing:  Moving around comfortably... I'm starting to feel a little like a roly polie.  And my old clothes.
Best part of this week:  Having a relaxing weekend with my husband.  (March and April are going to be CRAZY busy for us... we already have sooo many things on the calendar.  So I have been super grateful for such a relaxing obligation-free February!  I can't remember the last time we had a month like this!!)
Hardest part of this week:  Nothing that I can think of...
Looking forward to:  Spending so much time with my husband this Valentine's Day weekend.
Emotions:  Happy.  Love being pregnant right now!

Wednesday, February 12, 2014

The Bellybutton situation

As I have said in the past... I have always been TERRIFIED at the thought of my bellybutton popping out during pregnancy.  I have always had an innie and it's real sensitive!  So here's the situation...  I am 25 weeks pregnant and it still hasn't popped.  Will it pop out in the next 15 weeks?  I'm hoping it won't, but there's still plenty of time.

Here's what it started off looking like...

Nice tiny bellybutton.

Now here is what it looks like at 25 weeks...

Bellybutton definitely opening up, but not popped.  (And no stretch marks yet - yay!)

*** Side note: Despite the terrible lighting in these pictures, you can also see that I have developed a dark line running from my sternum all the way down my abdomen.  I started noticing this around 21 weeks or so and it's still fairly light. This is called the Linea Nigra and is actually caused by pregnancy hormones (the same hormones that cause darkening of other areas during pregnancy as well... like freckles, areolas and the external vaginal area in case you were wondering!)

And in case you wanted to see it even CLOSER...


I have had my appendix removed as well as my gallbladder and both surgeries were performed laparoscopically (this means rather than just making one large incision, 3-4 tiny holes were made for each surgical tool to go in through.)  Both of these procedures required surgeons to go in through my bellybutton, so I have double scar tissue in/under it.  (If you look really closely, you might be able to see the other 5 scars in the first picture.)  It almost looks as though the scar tissue is helping to hold my bellybutton in...  Some bellybuttons never pop and I'm hoping this scar is going to help me be one of those people!!  Fingers crossed!!!

On a different note...  today we are officially 100 DAYS from our due date!!!  AAHH!!

Monday, February 10, 2014

Week 24

Apparently it wasn't corn season at the Kroger down the street...
and I didn't feel like driving to HEB so no visual this week.!

Major events:  Nothing major
Size of baby:  Length of an ear of corn
Sleep:  Never sleeping, always tired
Cravings:  Everything sweet!
Movement:  Tons of movement, very strong; 
Belly button in or out?  Still in!
Missing:  Hugging my husband without there being a volleyball between us ;)
Best part of this week:  Prenatal MASSAGE!
Hardest part of this week:  Nothing new.. just still struggling to deal with the constant exhaustion
Looking forward to:  Completing nursery painting and planning our babymoon!
Emotions:  Happy, excited and anxious... and so grateful to God for a very easy pregnancy so far!

Thursday, February 6, 2014

Know Someone Who is Pregnant?

Pregnancy brings a lot of feelings and emotions, not to mention the hormones don't make things easier.  Often, pregnancy can make a girl feel like everything is spinning out of control.  Her body is changing, her emotions are changing, her relationships with those around her are changing... every aspect of life is changing.  I frequently feel like I am not a normal human being anymore - physically, emotionally, etc... (I forget that I haven't always been pregnant, nor will I be pregnant forever!)

Outside of pregnancy, I don't consider myself to be a sensitive or "emotional" girl.  It has been a struggle for me getting used to dealing with the increased emotions that come along with being pregnant.  I think what I have struggled with the most (emotionally) so far is people making me feel guilty (whether intentionally or unintentionally) about the things that are 100% out of my control.  Ouch.  If you have a pregnant friend and are wondering how you can be there for her, here are some tips on how you can lift her up and help her still feel somewhat like a normal human being...

1.  Never use the phrase "She's just upset because she's pregnant."  Yes, it is true that pregnancy... magnifies emotions in a very extreme way.  But if your pregnant friend is upset about something, her feelings ARE actually hurt.  Just because the emotions that she is feeling (whether good or bad) are more extreme than her norm, they are very real, especially to her.  (If I react to a broken glass like I just found out my dog got hit by a car and the world is going to end tomorrow... that is ACTUALLY how I am feeling.)

2.  Don't tell your pregnant friend that you are excited to see them "get fat".  Even if you feel that way... don't say it to her face.  Maybe replace it with.... "You're going to look so cute with a baby bump!"  or "I can't wait to see your cute tummy!"  That's probably more appropriate and less likely to hurt your girlfriend's feelings.

3.  Avoid telling your pregnant friend that you don't like being around her when she is pregnant.  Again, that's not something that she has ANY control over whatsoever and is obviously not able to change.  She already feels alienated enough, and chances are she isn't trying to be less enjoyable to be around.  This is an extremely rude thing to say.  Just keep this one to yourself.

4.  "I hope the baby comes on this day because I have/someone else has ________ going on the week before that/the week after."  This is DEFINITELY something that cannot be controlled, and making your pregnant friend feel guilty for having an "inconvenient" due date is definitely not okay and extremely hurtful.

5.  Don't say things to your pregnant friend that may make her feel alienated or lonely all together.  There are already plenty of things that she cannot do/eat/participate in, so avoid making her feel left out just because those around her aren't going through the same things that she is.

6.  DO check up on Dad.  His whole life is probably entirely focused on his pregnant lady and unborn child. Dads need love too :)

Everyone loves feeling special.  But when you are pregnant, the tiniest things go SUCH a long way.  Even just a simple message saying "Hey thinking about you!" means the absolute world.  Don't make your pregnant friend feel like she is forgotten about.  DO check up on her every once in a while (she probably misses you!)  Don't criticize her about her baby-related choices.  DO offer your support, even if you think she is being ridiculous.  Don't be afraid to tell her how cute she looks (even if she actually looks like a cow).  DO touch her belly (if she's okay with it :))

So if you find yourself around a pregnant lady and are wondering how you can support her during this time, basically it comes down to this:  Do what you can to make your pregnant friend(s) feel good about herself.  Don't forget about her (and dad).  And DO be intentional about what you say (or don't say) to a pregnant lady.  She is already going through so much in more ways than you can imagine and will need you even after her tiny human arrives.


***These are just a few thoughts from my own experience so far, but I would love to hear from other moms who have already been through this experience.  What advice do you have for those people close to pregnant women?  What was helpful for you? How did those around you offer their support? (I also want to use this experience to learn how I can support my pregnant friends in the future!)

Monday, February 3, 2014

Week 23



Major events: None
Size of baby:  Spaghetti squash
Sleep:  Bad!  Always exhausted...
Cravings:  Ice cream!
Movement:  TONS!  Starting to feel her move in other areas of my belly... since week 14 I have almost always felt her move on my lower left side... but now I can feel her all over the place.  Freaky!
Belly button in or out?  In!!
Missing:  Wine
Best part of this week:  Spending time with my bff and her sweet baby  boy!
Hardest part of this week:  Did something weird to my foot after cleaning the house...now I'm afraid to run on it :(  
Looking forward to:  Completing all of the painting in the nursery!  (More updates on this coming soon!)
Emotions:  Happy, excited, impatient... and the nesting hormones are for sure kicking in!