Week 18 Recap - Christmas, Baby Kicks and More

Thursday was last day of week 18.  (That means I'm coming up on 5 months.  20 weeks is the halfway point!)  Week 18 was a VERY exciting week!  We started it off by having lunch with my sister, aunt and cousin at one of my favorite Houston restaurants, Tiny Boxwoods. My aunt and cousin got me my first few maternity shirts!  This was followed by some Christmas shopping at the Galleria, and then a nice dinner in Kingwood with Ryan, my sister, BIL (bro-in-law), mom and grandma. THEN Ryan and I went to broomball with the high school youth group!  It was so great seeing so many people that we care about - all in one day!

The steak and avocado salad at Tiny Boxwood's is AMAZING.  I literally have dreams about this salad because it's so good.    I also usually ask for chicken instead of steak.  SO GOOD.  

On Christmas eve, I put on the dress that I was planning on wearing to church.  It's empire waist and had fit me a few weeks ago.  Since it's empire waist, I figured I would probably be able to wear it for a while.  It's so loose just under the bust line!  I was wrong.  I had NOTHING to wear.  My black pants?  Nope. Other dresses?  Nope.  It was an extremely... emotional.... afternoon.  I finally got to the point where I just decided I wasn't going to go.  Eventually, I calmed down enough to put my jeans back on (for some reason all of my jeans still fit - YAY!  I think being super low rise AND semi-stretchy makes that possible).  Even though, I felt totally UN-CUTE, I said SCREW it, don't care what anyone else thinks, I'm wearing jeans and heels.  So I did.  And no one cared.  (The day after Christmas, we made our first trip to buy some maternity clothes, which I will go into more later!)

Later that evening, while at Ryan's parents house for a family party I started feeling the baby move.  It was a lot stronger this time (I had eaten a LOT of Christmas cookies - oops!) so I had Ryan put his hand on my stomach to see if he could feel anything.  It's so sporadic though, he wasn't able to feel her.  I have been feeling small movements since week 14, and it's been so hard not being able to share that experience with Ryan over the last 4-5 weeks.  All I have been wanting for WEEKS is for him to finally be able to feel her too!  Christmas day came and went though.  There was so much going on, I was never in a good spot or position for Ryan to feel her.  December 26th, (the last day of my 18th week) I was laying on the couch relaxing after the madness and BAM.  She jabbed me.  BAM.  Another jab!  Luckily Ryan was sitting right next to me so I told him to put his hand on my stomach and try to feel her again.  BAM.  Just one last kick.  And he felt it :)  "Was that it??" "Yep!"  I think I was just as happy in that moment as I was when we found out we were having a girl.  I can't WAIT for more of these moments! Week 18 was an awesome week.  

Telling Our Immediate Families!

***Before we begin, I just have to say that I had this post all written out weeks and weeks ago and it was awesome.  Then something terrible happened.  After some extremely unfortunate circumstances...the post got deleted.  (Well, somehow it was copied over by something else because the internet is dumb.)  I was so mad that every time I sat down to re-write it I would get flustered and give up.  So this is my second time writing it (successfully) and it is just NOT the same.  So I apologize for this being sub-par.  The first time I wrote all of this out it was like a thousand times better. I'm serious. Ugh.


Okay.  Taking a break from all of these weekly updates... SO. This post may not be the most exciting for a lot of people, however, I just love hearing how other people tell their friends and family about their pregnancy.  I was always looking for fun ways to share pregnancy news with people, even before I actually got pregnant.  Even if you aren't pregnant now, maybe this will at least provide some inspiration for you when the time comes!  

Ryan's Parents -  First up is Ryan's mom and dad.  Obviously, we wanted to tell as many people in person as possible so the fact that they only live about 4 minutes away made telling them really easy for us to do right away!  Ryan and I had both just gotten back into town after being away for the weekend.  Of course I took another pregnancy test just to make sure nothing had changed (still positive!) and we headed over to their house as we usually do on Sunday afternoons.   The plan was to text Ryan's dad a picture of the pregnancy tests, because I know that he wouldn't be able to see what it was without getting is glasses and (hopefully) asking Ryan's mom to look at it.  We sat down on the couch, and while they were in the kitchen Ryan sent the text from my phone.  Ryan's dad said "Oh, it's from Stephanie," obviously confused as to why I would be texting him when I was sitting right there.  He looked around for his glasses and then said "Really??"  Ryan then said "Well did you show mom??" Then he showed Mrs. Kresta who said "YES!"  It was all just very silly and we had a good time sharing our news with the grandparents-to-be!

My Sister -  Up next is my sister.  The plan was for her to come down to Houston for my mom's birthday (2 weeks after we found out) and I would tell them both then.  However, my brother-in-law ended up getting really sick with a very complicated case of appendicitis and had to be hospitalized for quite some time.  Needless to say my sister was unable to leave Oklahoma.  Once I learned of this news, I just knew that I could not keep it a secret from her anymore.  We had previously been discussing what to get my mom for her birthday, and ended up just deciding to each get her something small on our own.  I decided that rather than call her it would be more fun just to send her the picture and see what happened.  Here's what went down:

I can't tell you how much I was smiling while this was happening.  I'm sure everyone who was driving around me thought I was a crazy person just laughing and laughing in my car by myself.  A short while later she was able to call me.


Ryan's Sisters -  Next up we have Ryan's sisters.  We had scheduled a mid-week dinner with them both because Jennifer was in Houston at the time.  As I mentioned above, Ryan and I had both been out of town the previous weekend for separate Bachelor/Bachelorette parties.  Knowing that they would ask us about our weekends, before we got to dinner Ryan had created a "fake" album on my phone with 3 or 4 pictures from the weekend, and then the last picture the pregnancy test picture.  So what felt like hours after they both arrived, they finally asked us about our weekend!  Jennifer asked about the location of the girls weekend so of course "Oh here are some pictures!"  (hehe)  Jennifer started scrolling through the pictures as Lindsey looked over her shoulder.  She got to the last picture and quickly scrolled back to the previous picture, thinking that wasn't something she was supposed to see.  Lindsey immediately got a super surprised look on her face.  Once they both looked up and saw the expressions on Ryan and my faces, they knew we had wanted them to see the picture.  It was perfect.

My mom -  Last but not least is my mom.  I have to say, trying to tell her the news was (to be blunt) a complete nightmare.  Here's why: First of all, when Ryan and I found out we were expecting my mom was in Ireland.  Then, I realized that her birthday was coming up in less than 2 weeks (which she would be home by that time).  Perfect!  My sister flies down, we all go to dinner... I'll tell them then!  However, Freddie was having a lot of complications and pretty soon after my sister realized she would not be able to come down... my mom decided to go up there to be with them once she returned from Ireland!  Meaning that's where she would be spending her birthday.  (Keep in mind my sister and Freddie already knew about the pregnancy, but my mom didn't!  It was up to them not to accidentally slip.  Aaahh!)  It was so hard not telling her, but since I already knew how I wanted to share the news, I just couldn't bear NOT telling her face to face.  So we had to put it off.  By the time my mom had returned from Oklahoma, I had decided to go up there and spend time helping my sister and Freddie out.  I was up there for about a week. When I came back, Ryan picked me up from the airport and we decided just to drive down to her apartment because "I had a few errands to run" (not).  I didn't want to give her too much notice, so that there wasn't any time to think about it, reschedule, cancel, etc.  I just wanted to show up!  Well, we got down there and it took us a while to get in touch with her.  Turns out, it was the ONE day a week that she is in a class for work and doesn't get home until after 9:00 p.m.  It was 7.  We decided to grab some food and then after we were done eating decide what to do.  We finished eating about 20 minutes later.  We both knew that we wouldn't be able to stay down there for another hour and a half+... so we went home.   (We had known about the pregnancy for 3 weeks at this point.)  I texted my mom the next day and asked her when I could see her to give her her bday present.  We scheduled dinner for the following night.  Okay, I can handle that.  The plan was for Ryan to drive home after work (45 minute commute) and pick me up and then we would be down at her apartment around 6 or 6:15.  Well.... 5:00 comes and goes.  No word from Ryan.  5:15.  5:30.  Nothing.  He's still at work.  I start to panic.  Ryan NEVER has to work late.  Like... this NEVER happens.  I'm trying REALLY hard not to call him and bother him.  I do NOT want to freak out on him because I KNOW that it's not his fault that he has to work late.  But I am freaking out.  I call him at 5:40 an absolute wreck.  I just couldn't stand the thought of putting off telling her AGAIN.  At this point, my mom was already talking about rescheduling or even the possibility of waiting another WEEK AND A HALF, when she was planning on coming out to our house for the afternoon.  Somehow Ryan understood the words that were actually coming out of my mouth between sobs.  He left work right away and came to pick me up.  (Side note - I realize that it would have been way faster for Ryan to just meet us there, however I'm not able to wear contacts any more and I am really really uncomfortable driving at night!)  We finally ended up getting down there over an hour later than we said we would, picked her up and headed to the restaurant. The plan was to give her a birthday card that said "Happy Birthday Grandma".  I wanted to give it to her asap so I decided to wait until the waiter took our drink orders but give it to her before we ordered our food.  So the waiter came, took drink orders and then I gave her the card.  And she just set it out the table without opening it.  Oh my gosh.  FINALLY after the waiter came back like, 4 hours later to take our food order she finally opened it.  Thank. Goodness. She was pretty surprised, but she said she had a feeling that something was up when we made SUCH an effort to see her on a random Thursday.  :)  Oh well!  It was such an incredible relief to finally finally finally tell her.

My BFF - Okay I know I said my mom was the last one but I lied.  I also realize that Katie is not technically "immediate family" but she is basically a sister to me and her family really is my second family.  Plus, I also wanted to brag about the super cute way that we told her and her husband Ross about the pregnancy!  Katie and I had previously discussed how cool it would be if we both had kids at the same time and they both went to Baylor together.  (Yes, we were making plans for 18+ years from now.)  We found out in the spring that Katie was expecting her first baby in October!  I was SO excited for her. By the time summer rolled around, I realized that (although, I initially thought we might start trying at the end of summer/beginning of fall)  I just didn't think I was quite ready yet (or so I thought.  The joke was on me though.)  My sister was getting married in July and I was able to spend some more time with Katie during these festivities as well.  I told her that I decided we would wait for a little while longer before starting a family and that I was sad our kids wouldn't go to Baylor at the same time.  (I do realize that our children could decide to attend other colleges, but let's be honest here - why would they?!)  So ANYWAY.  A few weeks after I found out that I was growing a human, I realized that technically both of our kids would be close enough in age that there was a possibility of them being in the same grade.  Awesome.  (I will say that it was very hard not to tell her right away - she was in her 9th month of pregnancy and I was in my 1st - I had SO many questions!!!)  I knew we would see them towards the end of November, so I decided to make a fake college graduation announcement to give to her then.  I had gone to Hobby Lobby and picked out some colored paper, and then my SUPER talented sister helped me out with the design.  The result. was. perfect!!!  And she was absolutely thrilled.

Click to zoom!

We had an absolute BLAST telling each person, including all of our other friends.  It is so fun to share such special news with people.  Thank you so much to everyone for all of your love and support!  We are so excited and can't wait to introduce Baby Kresta to all of the people that we love so much.

Weeks 17 and 18

Major events: Nothing major, just lots of Christmas festivities and hanging with family

Size of baby: Turnip

Sleep: Getting better... actually slept for 5 hours straight one night!

Cravings: None

Movement: Hard to tell... I have been so much busier lately that I haven't really been sitting still long enough to focus on movements.  Hopefully this changes soon so I can start to feel this baby move more and more!

Belly button in or out? In

Missing: Red wine

Best part of this week: Getting to hang out with my sister and her husband so much this week!

Hardest part of this week: Being so tired

Looking forward to: Family time at Christmas

Emotions: Happy! and pumped that I'm finally starting to show!

Major events: Christmas! 

Size of baby:  Bell pepper

Sleep: Meh. Sleeping 3-4 hours at a time (5 if I'm lucky), but definitely not a deep sleep.  I feel like crap right when I wake up. 

Cravings: None

Movement: YES!  

Belly button in or out? In

Missing: Being able to breathe through my nose when I sleep.  (Pregnancy increases mucous production throughout your body, so I get SO congested when I lay down!  Usually blowing my nose doesn't really even help at all.)

Best part of this week: Christmas (obviously) and Ryan finally felt the baby move :)  Can't wait for more of those moments!

Hardest part of this week: Dealing with extreme tiredness (I feel much more tired now than I did during the first trimester, but I have been much more active now than I was in the beginning.)  Also, almost didn't go to church on Christmas eve because none of my clothes fit.  It was a big (emotional) ordeal.  Time to get some maternity clothes!

Looking forward to: Feeling more kicks!

Emotions: Definitely feeling a LOT more emotional (and tired) lately!! I cry a lot. (Oops!)

Merry Christmas from the Krestas - Party of 3!

Week 16

Major events: Last Baylor game in Floyd Casey Stadium; 2 Christmas parties;

Size of baby: Avocado

Sleep: Bad, although falling asleep after I wake up is getting easier

Cravings:  Cheese; pickles and other salty things

Movement: Yes!

Belly button in or out? In... but opening up more and more.  I'M SO SCARED!!

Missing:  Going 10 hours without having to pee

Best part of this week: Telling our family the gender

Hardest part of this week: Being MISERABLY cold at the Baylor game and getting stuck in College Station with nothing but the clothes on our backs after they closed the roads due to ice.  (And almost ending up in a ditch due to said ice.)  Also, early in the week I had a terrible headache that prevented me from doing pretty much anything except lay in bed the whole day.  It was awful. 

Looking forward to: Picking a name

Emotions: Never been happier

I should also say that last week we found out that we're having a baby GIRL!!!!!  We are SO pumped!!!! Here are a few more recent pictures...

2nd Trimester - Weeks 14 and 15

Okay, so I am finally almost caught up!  I must say... it's true what they say:  The 2nd trimester is AWESOME!  I really don't even feel pregnant.  

Major events: My bday and our BBQ; Turkey Trot 10K; Thanksgiving

Size of baby: Lemon

Sleep: Bad as usual.

Cravings: None

Aversions: None

Movement: I THINK so.  

Belly button in or out? In

Missing: RAW OYSTERS.  (Yes, you read that right.  I LOVE raw oysters and HATE that I am missing oyster "season".)  Guess I will have to wait until next September.  Boo.

Best part of this week: Finally making this news 100% PUBLIC! 

Hardest part of this week: Other than not being able to sleep for longer than 3 hours at a time, no real "hard" parts about this week.  It was fabulous!

Looking forward to: Gender ultrasound next week

Emotions: SO happy to tell all of our friends!  Also, I am surprisingly feeling more emotional now than I did in my first trimester.  I have never been much of a crier, but if poor Ryan (bless his heart. No seriously.) says not the exact right thing... I just might cry.  Even just walking around Hobby Lobby listening to the Christmas music playing over the speakers makes me want to cry.

Major events: GENDER ULTRASOUND!

Size of baby: Apple

Sleep: Waking up every 2 hours to pee (sucks)

Cravings: None

Aversions: None 

Movement: Yes.  Undoubtedly.  (And it's awesome! And freaky.)

Belly button in or out? In

Missing: Sleep. And (yes I know I have a LONG road ahead of me) but my small belly.  I already miss my flat stomach :(

Best part of this week: Keeping the gender a secret just between us for a few days :)

Hardest part of this week: Keeping the gender a secret just between us for a few days.  Hehe.

Looking forward to: Having a very small not-a-big-deal party on Sunday to reveal the gender

Emotions: Happy.

1st Trimester Milestones - Part 2

Major events: Jeff and Hayley's wedding

Size of baby: Grape

Sleep: I have been trying to get in the habit of sleeping on my side, even though I won't have to for several more weeks.  (Who knew that pregnant ladies can't sleep flat on their backs?!) Even though I do spend a lot of time on my side when I am asleep, now that I HAVE to, I wake up constantly

Cravings: Chocolate chip cookies

Aversions: Red meat still sounds gross 

Movement: None

Belly button in or out? In

Missing:  Alcohol.  It really hasn't been anything I missed until this weekend.  Once I am in multiple (open bar) social situations, it is SO hard!  I just wanted a nice glass of champagne or a refreshing gin an tonic.

Best part of this week: 

Hardest part of this week: Not drinking.

Looking forward to: Nothing specific

Emotions: Generally Happy

10 Weeks

(No picture this week - sorry!)

This was an extremely uneventful week, so I will keep this one short :)

Major events:  Halloween; ran 8 miles and felt great!

Size of baby: Kumquat

11 weeks

(No picture again - oops!)

Major events: Drove to Baylor just for the evening to see Baylor play dominate OU

Size of baby: Date

Sleep: Bad

Cravings: Not sure if this is pregnancy related but... pizza.  Pizza ALWAYS sounds good.

Aversions:  Still red meat.  Steak sounds gross.

Movement: None

Belly button in or out? In

Missing:  Nothing major this week...

Best part of this week: Hanging out with family on Sunday (My mom brought me some great pregnancy books AND a cupcake!) 

Hardest part of this week: Daylight savings time :(  I hate when it gets dark so early!

Emotions: Excitement!  And feeling impatient. I can't wait until this secret is finally out in the open!

Major events:  Nothing really this week

Size of baby: Lime

Sleep:  Bad.  Everything wakes me up, I'm always getting up to pee and I never EVER sleep through the night

Cravings: Always pizza.  and salt!!

Aversions:  Yes, STILL red meat... I should just take this off and you can assume I still don't want steak :)

Movement: Nope

Belly button in or out? In

Missing:  My Nike shorts not digging in to my stomach

Best part of this week: The first person (my hair dresser!) touched my belly!!  (Side note - I LOVE it when people touch my stomach [yes even strangers - as long as it isn't some creep])  I was so excited that I considered calling Ryan at work to tell him. 

Hardest part of this week: Ryan going out of town for work (okay, okay it really was only for 1 night but STILL); Also having to miss family dinner with our friends

Looking forward to: The time when this won't be a secret anymore

Emotions: Feeling good

13 weeks

(No picture - I know I suck)

Major events: Ran a half marathon (!!); 2 great Dr. appts. 

Size of baby: Medium Shrimp

Sleep: Bad

Cravings: Pepperoni pizza!  

Movement: Not quite sure yet... maybe but it's so hard to tell!

Belly button in or out? In, but it's starting to open up.  (Normally it looks like a vertical slit, but now the opening is more round and you can see inside! WEIRD!)

Missing:  Nothing really

Best part of this week: Seeing baby again and hearing the heartbeat for the first time; AND finding out we can schedule an "early gender ultrasound" as early as 15 weeks!!  We are crossing our fingers that we will find out on December 2nd :)

Hardest part of this week: Nothing specific

Looking forward to: Telling EVERYONE at my birthday party next weekend

Emotions: SO excited.

1st Trimester Milestones - Part 1

My 1st trimester was relatively "uneventful."  Nothing really out of the ordinary, no major breakdowns (okay, okay no major noteworthy breakdowns) all of your typical symptoms... so here is just a little summary of my 1st trimester!

3 Weeks

Major events: Finding out we are pregnant!

Size of baby: Tiny :)

Sleep: Good

Cravings: None

Aversions: None

Movement: No

Belly button in or out? In! (Note: I am absolutely TERRIFIED of my belly button popping out!  I have an innie and it's always been really sensitive!)

Missing: Nothing yet

Best part of this week: Knowing there was a tiny life growing inside of me 

Hardest part of this week: Not telling EVERYONE!

Looking forward to: Our first Dr. appt!  (Our OBGYN waits until 8 weeks for the first appt. 8 weeks seemed SO far away!)

Emotions: Elation, surprise and a little fear (I have always been a planner and I feel totally unprepared for this little surprise!)

Major events: Telling Ryan's parents; telling all of our sisters; trip to Fredricksburg for a Bachelorette Party

Size of baby: Poppy seed

Sleep: Good

Cravings: None

Aversions: None

Movement: No

Belly button in or out? In

Missing: Red meat!!  I am one of those people who prefers a little blood in the middle of my burgers/steaks... not any more :( 

Best part of this week: Sharing the news with family 

Hardest part of this week: Hiding the pregnancy/not telling people/not accidentally spilling the beans

Looking forward to: Telling my mom

Emotions: Stress - trying to figure out my job situation (I will share more on this later); Guilt - I feel really guilty when I am in situations where I am not able to eat right for the baby.  

Major events: Plane ride to Oklahoma

Size of baby: Sesame Seed

Sleep: Good

Cravings: None

Aversions: None

Movement: No

Belly button in or out? In

Missing: Sushi; fitting into my bras; going on runs without my boobs hurting so bad!!

Best part of this week: Getting to see my sister; Daily morning nap time with Freddie when my sister runs home from the hospital to shower. (At this point, Freddie and I spend the same time each day sleeping!)

Hardest part of this week: Seeing Freddie so sick in the hospital and being away from Ryan

Looking forward to: Hopefully getting to telling my mom ONE day; getting back home to my husband (okay, okay that second one is not baby related - but I hate being away from him!)

Emotions: Nothing crazy this week aside from the general excitement

Major events: Flying home; finally telling my mom!

Size of baby: Lentil

Sleep: Good - although the number of times to get up to pee is increasing

Cravings: None

Aversions: Food. All food. And all smells.  Specifically the smell of bananas (even though I still force myself to eat them). UGH

Movement: No

Belly button in or out? In

Missing: Actually wanting to eat

Best part of this week: Obviously telling my mom

Hardest part of this week: Feeling sick 100% of the time (although never throwing up)

Looking forward to: Showing.  You always assume that you start showing the second that you get pregnant, but it really is a LONG time before you even look slightly pregnant (even then its still "is that just a beer belly or is that girl pregnant?")  

Emotions: The usual excitement.  It still doesn't feel real, so sometimes I will "forget" or stop thinking about it, and then remember again, which always makes me very happy.

Major events: Baylor football game; Our 1 year anniversary

Size of baby: Coffee bean

Sleep: Bad - waking up constantly and unable to go back to sleep.

Cravings: None.  Although if something sounds good to eat - that's what I am eating bc its the ONLY thing that sounds good.  One day it was macaroni and cheese and apple juice.  The next day it was a quarter pounder with cheese from McDonalds. 

Aversions: Everything.  

Movement: No

Belly button in or out? In

Missing: The desire to eat; Drinking our "1 year anniversary" bottle of wine.  :(

Best part of this week: Knowing that we only have to wait another week before seeing our baby!

Hardest part of this week: Finding food that doesn't cause me to gag at the mere thought of it.

Looking forward to: Seeing our baby and hearing it's heartbeat

Emotions: Impatience; excitement

Major events: 1st Dr. appt (!!); telling my uncle and grandma

Size of baby: Blueberry

Sleep: Terrible at night; napping all day

Cravings: None

Aversions: Red meat sounds terrible (so weird!)

Movement: No

Belly button in or out? In

Missing: Nothing specific this week

Best part of this week: Seeing baby and seeing the flickering heart

Hardest part of this week: Lying to my friends when asked "When are you going to get pregnant??"  (I HATE dishonesty even if the intentions aren't bad!)

Looking forward to: More ultrasounds; feeling the baby move; finding out the gender (doctor said we have to wait until our big 5 month ultrasound in January - what?!)

Emotions: Pure joy knowing that that our baby's heart was beating